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There’s a girl here with nappy ass hair and idk how to tell her it looks bad
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Anonymous 8w

are you black?

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Anonymous 8w

instead of just telling them maybe offer to help? coming from a black girl who struggles to do her own hair she might just need help

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Yes 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

girl honestly it’s a conflict of respectability politics vs there’s not that many of us here so sometimes nappy hurts the image of the rest of us.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

i’ve dealt with this too and i started “comparing” wash day routines and telling them “oh you should try …”

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