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are you black?
instead of just telling them maybe offer to help? coming from a black girl who struggles to do her own hair she might just need help
Yes 😭
girl honestly it’s a conflict of respectability politics vs there’s not that many of us here so sometimes nappy hurts the image of the rest of us.
i’ve dealt with this too and i started “comparing” wash day routines and telling them “oh you should try …”