you’ll hurt her if you don’t take the risk of losing her. imagine being strung along, waiting for a guy to admit to himself that he’s in love w you. put yourself in her shoes

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As a girl who’s on the other side of this, I know he doesn’t feel like he can do a relationship right now but if something doesn’t change soon I need to block him on everything and move on with my life. This is hurting me deeply all I want is love. If you are terrified of losing her, do something about it before you actually do lose her.

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As a girl who’s been through what you’re feeling, I understand. I was so scared to let myself be with a guy I loved and I ended up pushing him away because I couldn’t stand the thought of being emotionally vulnerable. I thought it would make me feel better bc it gave me a false sense of control, but I made myself unhappy because he genuinely loved me back. It’s okay to be scared. Love is a scary thing sometimes.

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