how old are you ?? and how old do you want your partner to be ?? just asking as a fellow bottom who’s genuinely had way more success getting comfy with a slightly larger age gap. at 19/20 i’ve found my biggest successes (2 actual romances, one that was a relationship for a few months) with guys that are 23-25. i KNOW some people find that gap creepy, but honestly as long as you know your worth, are so careful about not being manipulated, and set clear boundaries you can make that shit work.

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