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Dating 16w

cheese_of_the_world_unite

 fellas, is it gay to make a nicely decorated home with your wife?
629 upvotes, 33 comments. Sidechat image post by cheese_of_the_world_unite in Dating. "fellas, is it gay to make a nicely decorated home with your wife?"
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Anonymous 16w

Why do so many guys equate being hygienic or creative with being gay šŸ˜­

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Anonymous 16w

Alexander is either miserably single or settled for the only woman who gave him attention and is bitter about his loveless marriage

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Anonymous 16w

Prolly top 5 gayest things u can do

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Anonymous 16w

From the perspective of me, as an uber-conservative, these incels are the most gay of them all. They actually EXPECT women to be men, and are upset when women act differently than men. Sorry guys, I donā€™t think youā€™re actually into women

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Anonymous 16w

My home is nicely decorated because of my wife. If it were up to me alone my house would look like the weird old house in a horror movie with all the oil paintings, old maps, and taxidermy. I put most of that in storage but we have a deal that those things will be used to decorate the cabin we hope to buy where I used to hunt as a kid

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Anonymous 16w

soooo what alexander is saying is that if a man shows any form of personality they are no longer a man? like how tf does he expect men to decorate? a box and a lawn chair? he does realize itā€™s the womanā€™s home too right? so many questions

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Anonymous 16w

Yes! Only because Iā€™m gay and if I had a wife itā€™d be a manā€¦ soā€¦ but in seriousness no

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Anonymous 16w

People need to get over themselves. Just because an activity/job has been specific to a certain gender for so long, doesnā€™t make it gay when the other gender does it.

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Anonymous 16w

No

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Anonymous 16w

No

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Anonymous 16w

Fellas is it gay to build a home and enjoy your wifeā€™s company

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Anonymous 16w

Never met a man thatā€™s ā€œturned gayā€ after being with a girl. Met plenty that knowingly were beards but thatā€™s different. However I have lost count of the number of bi women Iā€™ve seen swear off men after dating some of the grossest people Iā€™ve metā€¦

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Anonymous 16w

feminine = gay now yall

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Anonymous 16w

I can kinda see what he's tryna say ig but like what is the problem with being goofy and silly with ur life partner haha

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Anonymous 16w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

we all know the gayest thing you can do is have heterosexual sex

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Anonymous replying to -> cheese_of_the_world_unite 16w

Thank god, Iā€™ve been having tons of homosexual sex and Iā€™m so glad to hear that it doesnā€™t make me gay. Phew, crisis averted.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 16w

Gotta have the taxidermy in the cabin. And old maps are classic

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

Iā€™m particularly looking forward to putting the bearskin rug in front of the fireplace and hanging the antler chandelier

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 16w

Ooh nice. Then itā€™ll look like Gastonā€™s pub

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

Iā€™m glad you said that, because most people hear that and think creepy murder house

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

why is this downvoted ik ya'll seen a dude on tiktok prancing around with his wife. i dont think there's anything wrong with it i'm just saying i see what he's saying. It's obvi an exxageration

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

I think itā€™s the way you kinda reinforced it. ā€œI can kinda see what heā€™s trying to say igā€ is enforcing the idea that it is indeed gay or not ā€œmanlyā€

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 16w

Nah, just have to make itā€™s full of light and a warm fire is in the hearth

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Fr like are they okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

all this coming from a mf with no wife

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 16w

I donā€™t even think itā€™s feminine to want your house to look nice, what kinda crazy shit is that man

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Anonymous replying to -> cheese_of_the_world_unite 16w

i mean like not ā€˜masculineā€™ looking for like deer heads and man cave and guns and manly shit whatever the fuck that means. like embracing a more feminine touch

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 16w

oh well my girlfriend and I have separate rooms in the three-bedroom house we just moved into, one for me to do how I want as my man-cave/office, one for her to do the girly room/office she wants, and then our bedroom that we both sleep in where each decoration is agreed upon

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 16w

Itā€™s lots of plants and classical paintings in our shared bedroom because we both appreciate those things, lots of pinks and her makeup desk and whatnot in hers, all my band posters and my bass and whatnot in mine, so it all really works

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Anonymous replying to -> cheese_of_the_world_unite 16w

thatā€™s cool as fuck and i love that, but i also donā€™t think thatā€™s like, a ā€œstandardā€ thing couples do, i know itā€™s not super uncommon especially today but itā€™s still not what most people do yk? so thatā€™s kind of where that comes from itā€™s also just really inherently misogynistic that decorating a home is ā€œfeminineā€ but thatā€™s just my opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 16w

I mean itā€™s mostly just our respective decorations from when we lived in separate apartments, but itā€™s nice weā€™ve got a three bedroom so we have the master for both of us AND our own individual spaces

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

it's nice to know it's not all conservatives

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