I hate when guys get mad that I’m not getting the “hint” when they are acting completely platonic. Like no, going out to get lunch is not a date. I have plenty of guy friends who are like “hey I found this new ramen place let’s try it” and it’s platonic.
Or another guy just had small talk with me. SMALL TALK. And he was upset after. Asking me my major and my plans after college is also not flirting, that is what everyone asks when they first meet eachother.