
I’m not saying is your fault. It’s hookup cultures fault. In the past it was seen as immoral and socially criminal to have pre marital sex. The guy HAD to date you and quite possibly had to marry you before it was socially acceptable to have sex. By taking that expectation of marriage away before having sex men stopped courting. Why would they court you when they know you or some other woman will let them hit BEFORE starting a relationship.