Anonymous #1 1w

Idk I know I'm just gonna feel like unc trying to do group projects with a bunch of 18 year olds

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Anonymous OP 1w

Wish age comes wisdom

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Anonymous #5 1w

I'm not sure many guys are into older girls lol but thank you this made me feel a but better

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Anonymous OP 1w

No they are trust

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Anonymous #3 1w

Omg i live in a college town and have no clue how to get into parties 😭

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1w

I feel like I have no other option than community tbh

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Anonymous OP 1w

And there’s nothing wrong with that

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Anonymous #2 1w

Bruh I feel like as a girl its gonna be even worse since I am already more mature than the guys my age 💀

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Anonymous OP 1w

They definitely are into older girls, almost any guy actually. You’re 22 though so I’m sure you’re aware that the maturity gap between 18-22 is massive, so it’s you who probably doesn’t want them lol

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Anonymous OP 1w

Lowkey I’m still learning but I have the benefit of also being in the Miami area so I usually just go to all ages stuff, but what helps is finding out all of your local colleges instagrams and following them since they’ll post when events are happening and they don’t say it but most of the time you don’t have to be a student to go, they just expect that only students will go

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Anonymous #5 1w

Yeah I am def not into younger guys lol

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Anonymous #3 1w

Ohh yeah that probably wont work in a small liberal arts school especially since a lot of them know me cuz I work at a popular restaurant lmao

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Anonymous OP 1w

I mean you can work at a restaurant and go to school? Plus I told the people at those clubs that I’m not a student, they didn’t seem to care. They were just glad to have another participant

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Anonymous OP 1w

You’ll be fine. My advice is definetly to find people who have similar interests. Lots of people make their friends in the dorm. You can’t do that, so you will have to go out of your way a bit. I find my friends by competing in something I was good at that had a uni tournament. So you can go to an event or soemthing that is aligned with what you like. Also roommates if you’re off campus.. just find ones you like lol

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Anonymous #3 1w

I'll look to see if I can but I doubt I have many options as a mainer lol

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Anonymous #5 1w

Yes finding friends has always been a struggle and lowkey why I dropped out when I was 19 lmao

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Anonymous OP 1w

Dude I was exactly the same way. I am extremely introverted (but good socially when I have to), so it was hard in that way. Finding people of similar interests is definetly the best way. Do you have any hobbies you really like?

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Anonymous #5 1w

Honestly not much cuz I'm depressed af but like anything art or anime I enjoy. But lowkey I might just fake enjoying something lmao

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Anonymous OP 1w

I also worked at a restaurant in uni as a waiter so I know you’re probably socially drained after a shift. Why not just art and anime? You can easily find other girls into that I think. One thing you can do is if you ever talk to someone in class, just casually mention it, and it could light a spark. In life I’ve found that people I really get along with -naturally- also tend to have similar interests.

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Anonymous #6 1w

My life experience doesn't match up with it at all

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Anonymous #6 1w

Im boutta be you 😝

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah I never bothered with guys younger than me. My partner was one of the very few mature men at my age

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Anonymous #2 1w

No ur lying lalala (im trying to cope with the fact i have never met a mature single man my age)

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Anonymous OP 1w

Tbf we’ve done a lot of growing together but the biggest aspect of maturity imo is being able to communicate and fix whatever immature traits you still have, which I fear is very rare 🫩

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Anonymous #2 1w

Yes communication and being self aware is like being a unicorn lol

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Anonymous OP 1w

Unrelated to that but I do wanna reassure you by saying most people don’t honestly know the difference between 20 and 25 on looks alone, especially for women. I’m 24 and people I meet are still surprised and think I’m much younger. I think I look my age but in your 20s not a lot changes looks wise

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