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Help I need advice: my boyfriend just found out that my last relationship was kinda like a throuple (I had 2 boyfriends) and now he feels weird. What can I do/say to make him feel better?
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Anonymous 3w

empathize with him on the fact that it’s a bit jarring to find out about, but make it clear that he’s enough for you and that you love him all the same

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Anonymous 3w

Yall can hate, but I’m being honest that I’d probably leave the relationship cuz im not into sharing my SO or be with someone who had a history of sharing or cheating.

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Anonymous 3w

I mean he may not get over it lol. Empathize and do what #2 said but like it may be a wall that he is not gonna climb

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Anonymous 3w

Uhm…….. flash him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

He already sees me naked every day

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Good advice, thank you I’ll try to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Girl ur fine he’ll get over it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m really worried that he won’t. I’ve never seen him this upset before.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Just make sure he knows he’s loved, for example my now ex bi gf would kiss other girls around me and it made me uncomfortable sure but before she admitted she was bi to me and liked woman i was okay. You’ll be fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Yeah I’m ngl I’m really starting to worry he won’t get over it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

He def could! It will be just a matter of compatibility and if he just can’t feel the same that he did before that u were in like a polycule thing then it sucks a lot (I get it kinda I know girls that won’t date me cause I’m nonbinary) but it just I guess is the case

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

But, I want to be super clear that I’m not coming with any hate or judgement when I say that. Maybe next time you could be upfront at the beginning to avoid this again :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Eh idk man how would you even be upfront about it if u don’t want it to happen again

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Please don’t lump this in with cheating or sharing, we were all equal partners. There was no infidelity and no one was an object to be “shared.” Also tbh idk how I’d be upfront about it because it’s not something I advertise. Nobody else even knows I was in that kind of relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You have a valid point. Maybe I change my mind.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

If you tell him what you just told me, I think that could clear up some awkwardness

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