
Respectfully you sound like the person playing the world smallest violin, don’t cry because people are smart enough to put themselves in positions to be successful and shame those that have trouble making friends that join a fraternity to become apart of a brotherhood. If you don’t like it don’t join one then and move on. You sounds bitter probably because you got rejected from a party
You’re the one who paid for friends and couldn’t get success on your own, for free. Never went to frat parties, they’re loud, stink, and full of asshole frat boys who think they have a right to grope your ass and throw beer on you for saying no. I much prefer handing out and getting drunk with my friends, playing some pong, choosing the music we listen to, good snacks, and vibing. Which yaknow. Doesn’t have a cover charge