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I’ll never date a man that won’t cook something hell a turkey on Thanksgiving, Christmas or any holiday you’re not about to just sit in the front of the TV and watch the game while I do all the work.
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Anonymous 4w

I’m a man but I actually enjoy doing most of the cooking

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Anonymous 4w

Thanksgiving- get the turkey fryer out and come in smelling of turkey and oil and bed her down

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Anonymous 4w

I’ll help but idk how to cook lowkey

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Anonymous 4w

Hell I’m down I cook all the time

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Anonymous 4w

For me looking for a partner I’ve joked saying I’ll cook and she’ll clean. Sarcastically, cuz obviously I’d like if she knew how to cook and I know how to clean.

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Anonymous 4w

In this hypothetical scenario are you also working anytime not during the holiday season or are you staying at home? Because my expectations differ based on that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

brother… you gotta learn to cook bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

By “idk how to cook” I meant like, I haven’t cooked enough/often enough to be confident making something more significant and fancy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Like I probably *could* make a turkey rn if I had like instructions but I’m not confident in the kitchen

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

If you want to eat you gone help regardless. If you can’t help you don’t eat.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh nah. If I’m working the other 50 weeks out of the year and you’re doing nothing, the least you can do is prepare for the holidays as I actively fund your ability to do so.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Oh really so who’s doing your laundry? Who’s making sure the bills are actually paid on time? Who’s the one that’s cleaning the house and making sure you have a hot meal in your stomach every week? Oh OK if you have kids who’s the one getting them ready fed and out the door while you’re at work?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You. Because you likely have 8+ hours every day that I don’t 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

THATS A FUCKIN JOB YOU NUT. Keeping the house together is a job. Being a mother is a job an unpaid job.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I don’t recall saying it wasn’t(?) I was simply saying how I would consider holiday preparations as being part of your job description for that season

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Well then you want eat fix you some cereal or go to Boston market and eat alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

If you were working on Thanksgiving itself I’d understand, you’d probably be real tired by the end of the day. But if you don’t help because…you’re working on other days of the year?? 😭 I am glad my partner does not think this way.

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