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I just want to vent somewhere ig. I hate hookup culture it has ruined everything. I can’t meet a guy and get to know him and have romantic moments. It’s always immediately sex sex sex the second you interact with a guy and I’m a virgin too I want real yk
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Anonymous 3w

Honestly I’m a guy and I’m sorry if it’s weird that I commented but I relate to this so much! Like I’ve ran into so many women that just want sex and also want me to pay do sex😂. Like I want something real as well! And I’d rather stay a virgin than pay for sex

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Anonymous 3w

Same girl same

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Anonymous 3w

Sadly that’s what has come to be in this generation

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Anonymous 3w

Young guys with decent meat, wake up hard by nature it’s not their fault really. If you want love find you an uncommon (square, ugly, weird) guy with a lil peewee or insecurities that won’t allow him to be very horny, or an older man who’s done everything already and just values companionship now. Other than that gotta wait until you’re 30-40 ish and dating older men for love. Young healthy guys will always need sex more than anything else.

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Anonymous 3w

I can’t argue, every chick I’ve dated under 30 was a train wreck and I felt more like a number

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

It’s depressing actually

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Very sad, as a girl I get attached sometimes to the dudes I did stuff with cause I liked how they treated me but they only treated me nicely so that they can get something out of me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

That’s what I’m scared of honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Save yourself for someone who wants you and your love

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I feel that so hard. It’s depressing as a man as well. I just want romance fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

For romance you need to either wine and dine yourself or find some female friends to do romantic stuff with like beach dinners, picnics, shopping, buying each other gifts, sleepovers, traveling, taking each other pictures (no homo) ect until you are ready to start dating mature/experienced men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I mean I’m not saying sex won’t come but if that’s all you wanna do and won’t take women out on dates and stuff that seems more insecure to me but that’s just what I think. I get horny I don’t have hookup with a bunch of people yk? But yeah it’s fine if that’s what u think

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