Confessions on Sidechat | I tell girls I’m gay so that they don’t try and pursue me and so I can actually be myself around them. I’m masculine asf but tell them I’m gay

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Confessions 14w

I tell girls I’m gay so that they don’t try and pursue me and so I can actually be myself around them. I’m masculine asf but tell them I’m gay

Anonymous 14w

"my steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery"

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Anonymous 14w

That’s fair. Are you asexual or just not interested in a relationship right now?

Anonymous 14w

Just be careful with that, lying to your friends can be a slippery slope.

Anonymous 14w

So you’re gay

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Anonymous

#1 14w

When you deal with women like I have and they try pursuing you and you have to try not to hurt their feelings this is the only solution sadly. I’d rather focus on myself and be the way I was before I gave women my attention. I thrived there

Anonymous

mother_russia 14w

Just not interested and I’d be so down to be friends with them but you already know. GIRLS AND GUYS cannot be friends with each other like that unless it’s in group gatherings. Me coming out as gay makes that possible

Anonymous

OP 14w

And if I got to tell them I’m gay it’s because it’s obvious they want me. This shuts that down for me

Anonymous

#3 14w

If you get with women with the attempt of getting them. You’re already losing. You skipped the friendship

Anonymous

OP 14w

naw im just scared to talk to girls

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Anonymous

OP 14w

That’s fair. It will make it much more complicated when you actually find someone that you like and want to date down the road but for the time being it works well!