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Confessions 10w
i dated 4 girls in a row with untreated bpd. i loved each of them and i believe each of them loved me. but i’m genuinely broke and don’t know how to recover and date again. i tried my best. i did everything i could. i burnt myself out. but still i feel
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Anonymous 10w

unworthy and not good enough

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Anonymous 10w

Everything you go through will change you. You are learning lessons that can’t really be taught because you have to internalize this. Don’t invest in broken people and build yourself up. Date your equal, don’t fix them.

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Anonymous 10w

Damn 4 in a row? How’d you even find that many? It’s not your fault. How they treated you, is not a reflection of your worth. It was never going to work out with ppl who have untreated BPD. That’s just the reality. It wasn’t going to be healthy. But you are so worthy of love and respect and patience and kindness. Don’t give up.

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Anonymous 10w

this is hilarious

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

and i don’t blame any of them for thwir mental condition, i have a few of my own, but i just tried so so hard, but i wasn’t good enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

i was never trying to fix them.. i just thought we were happy

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Anonymous 10w

i was okay, but now i’m not. and yeah i’m not planning on dating anytime soon or maybe again. i need to just be me and my cat for awhile

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You were happy, they had untreated bipolar depression. They had their own self growth to do before they could put in enough time to care about you as well. They were struggling.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

oh i mean borderline personality disorder. but 2 did have bipolar. and i personally and bipolar (medicated and generally stable), so i’m really not trying to fault anyone for mental illness. but i’m just really hurt and broken. i tried so hard. i did so much. i loved them so much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

The best thing you can do right now is start eating healthier and let them go. Mental illness starts in the gut. The shitty food you eat is causing issues in the brain and I’m not even joking. No sodas and no energy drinks is a good start.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

You aren’t a good person for saying that btw

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