Confessions on Sidechat | i feel guilty about having sexual scenarios in my head using people around me. it feels gross and predatory, but sometimes it just happens and i feel terrible

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i feel guilty about having sexual scenarios in my head using people around me. it feels gross and predatory, but sometimes it just happens and i feel terrible

Anonymous 4w

i think this is somewhat normal?

Anonymous 4w

With who though

Anonymous 4w

Anonymous 4w

I feel like that shit is not normal. I can’t even imagine the people saying it’s normal being in relationships with other people

Anonymous 4w

it helps to fill your mind with positive things instead, like instantly switch thoughts. cuz like intrusive thoughts are mostly not your fault, it just depends what u do with them

Anonymous

#1 4w

guys in my class that i’ve never spoken a word to. or people from work

Anonymous

#1 4w

thats how i feel on the inside after the delusions pass and i look at them

Anonymous

#2 4w

really? it feels like an intrusive thought when it happens so i try not to be too hard on myself

Anonymous

OP 4w

but then imagining someone else doing that to me makes me feel gross again

Anonymous

OP 4w

i think that it’s normal And it’s normal to have conflicted or guilty feelings about it. like it’s kind of a moral grey area. bottom line though is that you aren’t harming anyone as long as you’re keeping the details of those fantasies to yourself

Anonymous

OP 4w

It’ll make me feel gross regardless so I try not to think about anything. But I relate to you

Anonymous

OP 4w

It does seem like an intrusive thought, I used to have similar ones, including to people I was not at all attracted to. Like you said don’t be too hard on yourself, it’s not hurting anybody else and you can’t help it. In my experience they started to be less frequent when I stopped beating myself up over them.