Confessions on Sidechat | wheres the line between tolerating things i shouldn’t, and giving someone who is actively healing and improving grace and understanding? i’m not a “but when they were a kid xyz happened so that makes this behavior okay” person, but where’s the line?

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wheres the line between tolerating things i shouldn’t, and giving someone who is actively healing and improving grace and understanding? i’m not a “but when they were a kid xyz happened so that makes this behavior okay” person, but where’s the line?

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Anonymous 8w

i feel like that mindset is lowkey giving chronically online. obv big boundaries or super firm ones are one thing. but we’ve all hurt ppl we cared abt not on purpose. and if someone takes accountability and improves, is it wrong to show them grace? i have self respect but i also think people deserve more grace than they are given. my fear is that that mindset will make me a doormat. but maybe that doesn’t mean im a doormat, maybe it just means i am capable of giving grace?? idk im losing it lol

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Anonymous 8w

sometimes online opinions make me feel like i’m going crazy. thank u 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽