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literally every man I’ve ever known closely (romantic, friendly, and familial) has hurt or abused or used me in some fucking way and it’s making me a misandrist.
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Anonymous 17w

Not to victim blame but I think you may need to sharpen your discernment on who you let in your life. It’s a pattern. I suggest therapy to figure it out

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Anonymous 17w

Sounds like a you problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

oh most definitely its a pattern but it’s not like they’re outwardly bad people when I first meet them. a lot of them start off chill and nice and I only find out much later that they were lying and had ulterior motives or some hidden bad side

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

I usually ditch them by that point but only after the surprise damage had been done

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Anonymous replying to -> huje_rekshon 17w

yeah let’s blame the people who got hurt and abused instead of the people who did the hurting, that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

You just let it happen tho, be a G

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