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I am such a bad boyfriend and I feel like I’m always messing up. Long distance is hard as fuck and I am not doing a good job
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Anonymous 5w

What happened?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I am very forgetful and cannot remember to give my partner the attention they need (I have ADHD and memory problems). I’m an introvert and I like my space and they need me a lot. It makes me feel like I don’t do enough.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I have adhd, memory problems, and am definitely an introvert too bro so I understand where you’re coming from, trust me. And honestly, this is why I don’t do long distance relationships, I just know I couldn’t give them my all, no matter how much I love the person. It’s not your fault if you’re struggling to be someone you aren’t. Is there any plans of becoming no longer long distance anytime soon?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Not really? They have about two years left of school, and I have at least a semester. We’re likely going to visit in January or February, but other than that no plans unfortunately :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Damn that’s really tough man, I’m sorry to hear that. Once you graduate, have you considered moving to where they’re going to school?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I have thought about it. They might be moving out a few states away for an internship next year, so I might follow if we’re still together by then. But I still need to stay where I’m at and finish my degree

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