Confessions on Sidechat | I feel like I get obsessed pretty quickly & then detach when I don’t get constant attention. I want to be crazy about someone in a healthy way but I tend to only go for guys who love bomb.

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Confessions 1d

I feel like I get obsessed pretty quickly & then detach when I don’t get constant attention. I want to be crazy about someone in a healthy way but I tend to only go for guys who love bomb.

Anonymous 1d

This actually sounds like you may be a mythical ✨Female Avoidant✨ Or at least anxious-avoidant leaning avoidant That can actually be a mechanism to prevent you from forming a real bond/getting into something real/commitment Even if you desire a healthy, loving relationship, your nervous system still rejects it. Sabotages tf out of you.

Anonymous 1d

Sounds like you have some self work to do

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#2 1d

So basically ✨therapy✨ THE CAVEAT tho is that most therapists don't know what to do with female avoidants and usually give horrible advice and tend to continually slip into talking to you like you're an anxious Bc that's what they're so used to Basically, it's rough out here 😭