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We need a hookup culture for people who are touch starved. Instead of anything sexual, it’s just hugging or getting to hold someone in your arms
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Anonymous 4w

I’d be down for this

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Anonymous 4w

Lowkey do this with my roommates, def support

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Anonymous 4w

You know OP this is a thing and people even pay for this. It’s called cuddling. A normal relationship should have affection rather than hookups. Since dating has becoming devoid of intimacy, there is a rise and need for people to be cuddled and felt loved. Touch is a love language. It is sad people’s needs are falling into abstractions rather than one person sharing and caring doing a variety of things for each other.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Like I miss being in a relationship due to the physical contact of just someone’s presence being there and its been years since I’ve had that but I still miss it. I want something that’s hookup culture but that cuz I don’t want to hu with someone looking for sex just so I can lay in bed holding them if that’s not what they were looking for

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

NO YEAH THATS WHAT I MEANT, we don't hu we just show a lot of nonsexual physical contact cause it's still great to experience a hug from someone!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I wish I had that. As a guy its awkward for other guys to do that kind of thing and I have friends who are lesbians so there’s times where I just need a woman’s touch without it being sexual or weird. Just something to remind me of what it felt like to have someone be there

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Trust, there's guys that'll be comfortable enough to do that. I'm also a guy, so I know how that can feel. You'll find someone to be there to help ya until you find yourself a partner, promise ya

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

That’s the thing tho. Dating’s hard rn and takes months to eventually build up to when in a relationship. God forbid I don’t want to spend another $200 into a relationship only to end up with someone I find out 2 months later is afraid of physical intimacy and still leaves on their own

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