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I don’t need proof, if I suspect my gf is cheating I dump her. Don’t understand everyone needing proof for it
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Anonymous 2w

sometimes insecurity is a big factor, hence why people search for proof first, as they usually tend to care about the partner they’re with - just cause you suspect it, doesn’t always mean you’re right

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Anonymous 2w

I mean. Definitely listen to your intuition. But sometimes our nervous system might just be reacting to something that’s not there. Like, don’t lose your head trying to find proof. But like, talk to her? I feel like most of the problems of this world could be solved if we just talked xd

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

No but if I suspect it, the trust I should have in my partner isn’t there and I don’t need that in my life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i did think about it - that’s definitely fair, trust plays a huge part in it. i’d say personally i’d talk with them first, but obviously to each their own! i understand the trust argument though

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I dont mean a spur of the moment feeling I mean real suspicion

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I mean, fair enough. You know? Men and women who cheat are often really good at hiding it, leaving the other person to spiral into thinking they’re crazy. I completely understand what you’re saying, so if you need to protect your peace, definitely do that. I just like to add that caveat in case you hadn’t explored that option.

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