Anonymous #2 1d

i’m ngl your friend sounds dumb as fuck for continuing to have sex with men even though she felt horrible after

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Anonymous #3 1d

That’s such horrible and homophobic mentality

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Anonymous OP 1d

…it’s homophobic to say it’s dumb to continue to do something that makes you feel bad?

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Anonymous #3 1d

It’s homophobic to be judgmental for someone else’s journey and downplaying their experiences

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Anonymous #3 1d

Fuck you

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Anonymous #2 1d

name a time and place i’ll be there

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Anonymous OP 1d

fair enough lol i still think it’s dumb to keep doing something that makes you feel terrible

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Anonymous #3 1d

while you’re right, i think this is just a case of improper wording/semantics. op probably just meant that lesbians don’t need to be appalled by men to qualify for the title. like you said, men just aren’t part of the equation for the identity, it’s merely about finding women attractive.

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Anonymous #4 1d

They’re saying that it’s dumb for lesbians to not find out that they’re lesbians sooner

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Anonymous OP 1d

no i’m saying exactly what my comment said. being a lesbian has nothing to do with men

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Anonymous #3 1d

Is that why you took down the original post?

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Anonymous OP 1d

tbh someone pointed out that it was contributing to harmful stereotypes about lesbians, and i didn’t want to encourage that. either way what does that have to do with lesbianism not having anything to do with men? why are you being so cagey about this

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Anonymous #3 1d

The problem is you’re shaming lesbians for not having a gay awakening sooner. It’s not your business how they handle it let them live. Gatekeeping lesbianism isn’t a good look

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Anonymous OP 1d

bc i said lesbians aren’t attracted to men? okay lol

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Anonymous #3 1d

Do not even try to change what you originally said

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Anonymous OP 1d

i’m not even talking about that i’m talking about YOUR post where you refuse to say that lesbians aren’t attracted to men and instead either dodge the question or say they’re just attracted to women more

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Anonymous #3 1d

Lesbians aren’t attracted to men. You switched up cuz you knew you were in the wrong about shitting on other lesbians don’t even play

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Anonymous #3 1d

Do you seriously think that this many people would be pissed if you said that lesbians aren’t attracted to men? You know what you originally said

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Anonymous OP 1d

ok great thank you for clearing that up! it only took 2 hours <3 also idk what i’m switching up on, thats what i originally commented. you can scroll up to see it. it’s right there. if you’re talking about my original post i already said why i took it down. you can scroll up to see that too <3

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Anonymous #3 1d

You fake asf for that you completely switched up your answer cuz people got mad 🤣 you know what you said too that’s the saddest part

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Anonymous OP 1d

…yeah? i know? and i said i took the post down bc i realized it was reinforcing stereotypes. how many times do i have to say my comment which this whole convo is taking place under is bc of the wording in your post?

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Anonymous OP 1d

ok tell me what i switched up on. this is the third time im saying i know i was wrong and i deleted my post bc of that, my comment on your post that this convo is taking place under was specifically bc of the way you worded this

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Anonymous #3 1d

This is not because of wording. You’re actively shitting on people who didn’t have a gay awakening sooner like you did with #2’s friend. So what if she didn’t realize she was a lesbian sooner? Doesn’t give you the right to shame her for it. That’s some homophobic friendly fire ngl

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Anonymous #3 1d

And on top of that, you’re generalizing people’s lesbian awakenings as a whole turning it into superiority complexes just cuz they didn’t knew what they wanted sooner. Competitive lesbianing isn’t a thing girl lmao

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Anonymous OP 1d

no it genuinely is, bc in your post it wasn’t clear whether or not you thought lesbians were just attracted to women more or if they weren’t attracted to men at all. again it’s been cleared up now but that’s what i was trying to figure out

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Anonymous OP 1d

god i wish it was i’d crush it

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Anonymous #3 1d

I’m saying you treat it as if lesbians aren’t repulsed by men immediately and continue to mingle with them then they’re aren’t genuine lesbians. God you’re entitled af

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Anonymous OP 1d

i actually never said that lol, i just said i think it’s dumb to continue to do something you know makes you feel bad. i believe that about other things too. like rn for instance i can tell this convo isnt making you happy, but you keep participating in it even though you could stop responding or block me or do literal anything else. if that makes me entitled thank god i have enough sense to feel that way

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Anonymous OP 1d

girl the comment is still up and i’ve never denied it 😭 i’ll continue thinking it’s dumb to keep doing something you know makes you feel bad

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Anonymous #3 1d

You shamed another person’s friend in the comments for it and were bringing this up in your original post lmao. You didn’t just say you “personally think its dumb but just my opinion”

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Anonymous OP 1d

right bc that would have made it so much better 😭 end of the day it’s still dumb to do something you know makes you feel bad. do you disagree with that?

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Anonymous #3 1d

You deleted the original post and changed what you were talking about don’t play dumb gn <3

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Anonymous OP 1d

lol ofc bc me repeating the same thing 100 times is changing what i’m talking about. you’re so silly <3

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Anonymous #3 1d

Absolutely. My closest gay friends and my ex even myself took a couple tries with straight dating or whatever to find out what we really wanted so we could narrow down what we want even if it made us uncomfortable. It doesn’t just click for everybody like you expect it to

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Anonymous OP 1d

and they eventually stopped. bc they realized it wasn’t for them. do you think they should have continued even though they knew they didn’t like it? bc that was the situation i originally commented on

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Anonymous #3 23h

You're gross

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Anonymous OP 20h

i didn’t realize this was the person who posted the other post. i was just agreeing with this comment, not that one. comphet absolutely exists and they’re ignorant for not acknowledging it

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