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I always cover ppl and pay for ppl and ish 'Bc I still live w my parents'. Today I was told "This is exactly WHY you still live with your parents! You need the money more than me, I can afford my own place girl. Save up." And I'm like omg. Wait a minute🧍‍♀️
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Anonymous 1d

Honestly why do you pay for people? Like I get you live with your folks and all but that doesn’t mean pay others. Not constantly anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I have so much guilt and shame about living w my parents that I live by a code of er radical generosity. I guess I just feel super privileged and like I have it so good, bc my parents let me live with them, that the guilt forces my hand. But this girl today was like 'I love my parents and they love me. They'd totally let me crash if I needed to! You aren't the only one with loving parents. You're just an extremely overworked yet broke person with loving parents.' 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I understand where you come from. Living with your parents isn’t a bad thing. Cherish them while can. I hope people don’t take advantage of your generosity

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