Confessions on Sidechat | "Why do you want guys that are 5'10+ when you're only 5'2?" Why do you want girls who go to Pilates when you don't look like you go to the gym nearly enough? Maybe focus on yourself

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Confessions 16h

"Why do you want guys that are 5'10+ when you're only 5'2?" Why do you want girls who go to Pilates when you don't look like you go to the gym nearly enough? Maybe focus on yourself

Anonymous 15h

The answer here is that adhering to overly high societal beauty standards as a relationship minimum rather than dating people you like as a person is bad.

Anonymous

#1 15h

Also not to downplay how shitty society is to people on the heavyset side (that’s a massive issue) it is also different than height considering height is like completely immutable.

Anonymous

#1 14h

The answer is i wear heels everyday and i will not be sexually attracted to someone im basically eye level with when we're out and if im not sexually attracted to you, im not gonna waste your time. I only date people i like as a person. They just have to be taller than I am in heels.

Anonymous

#1 14h

Also it's not completely different because the point I'm making is generally speaking people don't find women unattractive for not being tall yet people, especially fit people, do generally find people unattractive for not being in shape. I'm not going against any generalized beauty standard beyond personal preference by being a short woman. Fat men are going against a generalized beauty standard by being a fat man. I'm still fully in my league by being short and wanting to date taller men lol

Anonymous

OP 8h

Did you not basically just repeat “yeah I’m completely adhering to societal beauty standards”