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Confessions 22h
Had an argument with my best friend about sexual harassment. I was saying that if someone makes comments on your body that make you uncomfortable, that is valid and you are not obligated to put up with that. He was saying that no, you have to be (cont)…
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Anonymous 22h

He is very wrong and it is time to find a new best friend

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Anonymous 22h

…able to articulate why it makes you uncomfortable for it to be “valid” as sexual harassment, otherwise it doesn’t matter and you should get over it. Genuinely made me think less of him as a person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Blew my fucking mind when he said that. He was saying that when people (whether it’s men or women) receive unwanted sexual comments about their bodies, many of them only have a problem with it because they’re told by “society” to have a problem with it. When no, if someone talks about you sexually in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, you are NOT in the wrong for feeling that way, no matter you can articulate it or not. In his mind, victims have to justify themselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Instead of the person doing it just fucking off.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

That’s insane wth??

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