
i have her number because she used to be my bestfriend since we were two we played soccer tg, went to school tg then she did what she did and it still gives me nightmares and flashbacks to those days, what i endured wasn’t okay. so i made a message to get it off MY chest not to start anything nothing was ever done about no grownups cared so im just simply getting it off my chest even if she doesn’t read it
Yeah it’s not a good idea, you are opening yourself up to revictimization. Because if you a victim reach out to a bully, they just gonna do it over messages, cause you seem obsessed and can’t stop thinking about it. Write it in a letter, read it aloud and burn it but don’t interact with them.