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should i send the closure text to my bully letting them know how much they made life hell? it’s for me not even a confrontation just to get it off my chest.
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Anonymous 1d

Do it

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Anonymous 1d

Why do you have your tormentors number, why would you try to contact them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i have her number because she used to be my bestfriend since we were two we played soccer tg, went to school tg then she did what she did and it still gives me nightmares and flashbacks to those days, what i endured wasn’t okay. so i made a message to get it off MY chest not to start anything nothing was ever done about no grownups cared so im just simply getting it off my chest even if she doesn’t read it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah it’s not a good idea, you are opening yourself up to revictimization. Because if you a victim reach out to a bully, they just gonna do it over messages, cause you seem obsessed and can’t stop thinking about it. Write it in a letter, read it aloud and burn it but don’t interact with them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

guys i sent it it was respectful i kept it minimal and blocked her no cursing or anything or coming at her character or anything of that sort

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