Anonymous #1 2d

yea it’s already isolating then to lose part of your support network too can make it worse

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Anonymous #1 2d

Girl, she lost friends because she dropped out of high school. Most people didn’t have time to hang out with her cause they were too busy doing homework or extracurricular activities. Then, she got pregnant. If they didn’t have time for her beforehand, they definitely aren’t gonna have time now

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Anonymous OP 2d

okay? she can still be upset about that then? again, she lost people who could’ve supported her when she needed it. whether she lost them before or after she still lost people she cared about.

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Anonymous OP 2d

also um text? we live in an era where you can easily keep in contact without seeing each other in person

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Anonymous #1 2d

She needs family to support her more than anything else. She almost all of her friends when she dropped out. Sorry not sorry but I have class to go to? I can’t hang out on a random Thursday at 12 pm.

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Anonymous OP 2d

yes she needs family, but friend support matters too. especially if she has no family support, who would she turn to? i fear you’re just judging her for nothing. shit happens, let her be upset and want more people in her life.

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Anonymous OP 2d

bro does no one in your town have a phone

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Anonymous #1 2d

Support her for choosing to drop out? What 🫪

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Anonymous OP 2d

you are clearly not understanding. she needs support for being PREGNANT. who gives an actual fuck that she dropped out? she needs family support and friend support because she’s literally carrying a baby. 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous #1 2d

She’s not pregnant anymore. Her children are in elementary school now. You’re clearly not understanding that she lost her friends before she got pregnant. Why would they support her if they’re no longer friends??

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Anonymous OP 2d

well there it is- you were acting like people were not supporting her because they couldn’t but clearly you’re just judging and that’s the real barrier and exactly what she’s talking about

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Anonymous #2 2d

Right, sure… because you know me? Right?

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Anonymous OP 2d

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ so first you make a post almost making it seem like this girl just dropped out and is currently pregnant. you are not understanding her then nor are you understanding me. i started this by saying its okay for her to be upset she has no friends because of everything went down. im not saying these people are her friends and should support her. i simply stated she needs friends because she needs some support. while having family is good, it can be lonely without others.

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Anonymous OP 2d

maybe you don’t mean to but yeah you sound judgmental towards this girl in this thread

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Anonymous #2 2d

Ok?

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Anonymous #1 2d

this is a app for college student lmao what ?

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Anonymous OP 2d

an*

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Anonymous OP 2d

maybe word your things better then? and maybe learn to let people live their lives and feel things because her feelings are 100% valid. being judgmental is not a good trait.

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Anonymous #1 2d

I didn’t ask for your advice. I never said she couldn’t live her life lmao or that her feelings are not valid. All I said is that chose to do every single one of those things and knew it would isolate herself from her friends. What the fuck are you going to expect?

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Anonymous OP 2d

yeah idek if you know what you’re trying to do with this thread bc you started out trying to defend yourself and the people who dropped this girl then basically are like unabashedly judging and dismissing this girl’s struggles

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Anonymous OP 2d

only if those “friends” didn’t really care about her and weren’t truly friends in the first place. true friends would keep checking in and stay in touch

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Anonymous #2 2d

Again her struggle is literally just her losing her friends from purposely dropping out of high school

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Anonymous OP 2d

you are acting like it though. “what the fuck are you going to expect?” she probably expected to have some friends after everything that happened. you are invalidating here feelings whether you see it or not. atp stop talking about someone elses struggles when you have no reason to. esp since this clearly doesnt affect you personally.

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Anonymous OP 2d

again did none of these people have access to phones?

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Anonymous #1 2d

Im not feeling bad for someone who purposely ruined their life by dropping out of HIGHSCHOOL lmao

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Anonymous OP 2d

so you just lack empathy and are ignorant? she was a teen mom, and you don’t know what happened behind the scenes meaning you don’t know if she was forced to drop out. start figuring out your own struggles before talking about someone elses. its quite pathetic.

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Anonymous OP 2d

and i can’t help but feel like you’re ignoring my question about whether people had the means to contact her

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Anonymous #1 2d

Omfg she didn’t lose ANY friends for being a teen mom. Thats the WHOLE point.

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Anonymous OP 2d

she lost friends because she dropped out. again, im saying you have no clue why she actually dropped out as you clearly don’t know her since you called her a random. again work on your struggles before talking about someone elses. i fear thats common sense

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Anonymous #2 2d

Communication is a two way street. She left home to do drugs with her baby daddy and was without phone service a lot. Even when she had service she’d hardly text back. I can’t speak for other people but I wasn’t willing to fight to keep her in my life

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Anonymous #1 2d

I have no clue but you do? Right. LMAO okay

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Anonymous #1 2d

When did I call her random?

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Anonymous OP 2d

never said i did! hence why im simply stating you dont know what happened so you can’t be judgemental! and even if she made stupid mistakes, we are human. stop wasting time on someone elses decisions and stop wasting time being a hateful person 🩷 much love

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Anonymous OP 2d

ok so then it sounds like she lost friends because she started ghosting people that’s the operative thing here idk why you keep fixating on her dropping out

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Anonymous #2 2d

Because I can

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Anonymous OP 2d

then that makes you weird ❤️ have a karma filled day ❤️

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Anonymous OP 2d

#1 of course

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Anonymous #1 2d

I really don’t care about your opinion

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Anonymous OP 2d

ur seriously so mad im sticking up for someone who can’t even see what you’re saying. and yes, i read one of your comments wrong so i admit that i did in fact make a mistake and thats on me!

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Anonymous OP 2d

then don’t respond

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Anonymous #1 2d

Right. So, stop acting like you know shit. There’s a reason why everyone dropped her. Keep yourself in your lane

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Anonymous OP 2d

hey so me admitting my mistake is me realizing i was wrong, which means im not acting like i know shit. stop being a rude about a girl who is struggling though and can’t even stick up for herself here! hope this helps!

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Anonymous #1 2d

Honey I simply just telling you to stop acting like you know shit… it wasn’t a response to your mistake 💀 Stop telling me what the fuck to do.

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Anonymous OP 2d

you genuinely are getting worked up over me stating what you are doing is wrong. if thats not telling, then i dont know what is. its not hard to be kind, and i genuinely hope you realize that at some point in your life.

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Anonymous #1 2d

I never asked for your opinion or advice. You playing devils advocate isn’t helping anyone

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Anonymous OP 2d

i can still express my opinion and give advice even if you dont want it. 🤷‍♀️ stop replying if you truly dont care

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Anonymous #1 2d

It’s my post you fucking weirdo.

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Anonymous OP 2d

and its yik yak.. meaning i can express wtvr i want lmfao. stay mad

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Anonymous #1 2d

You stay mad babes! You complaining that I didn’t keep a druggie high school drop out in my life. You’re mad that I’m calling her bc she wants to blame her kids on her lack of friends. gtfo goofy

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Anonymous OP 2d

i never complained that you didnt keep her in your life babe! i stated over and over to not judge someone because you will never know the full story, and i stated that she deserves support and friends! im not mad at you either. im more disgusted than anything since you lack empathy and you are ignorant! much love xx

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Anonymous #1 2d

You don’t know the full story. I can because I literally do know the full story. Be disgusted lmao you clearly just learned the words ignorant and empathy.

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i think we know who the mad one here is…

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Anonymous #1 2d

Your whole thread is literally just complaining about me talking about this girl. You keep telling me that I “don't know the whole story” when in reality it’s you that doesn’t. You know absolutely nothing about me, her, or the damn story. So, how about you take your own advice and shut the fuck up. God forbid I’m pissed off at a girl who’s blaming her children for a lack of friends when it’s in reality her fault before she was ever pregnant.

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Anonymous OP 2d

i wouldnt say you’re pissed id say you’re just judging. dk why thays hard to admit

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Anonymous #1 2d

I’m sooooo glad you’re me and know my feelings!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH for letting me know exactly how I feel as if I’m not my own person 🫶💋🥰

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Anonymous #4 2d

Thank you!

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Anonymous #5 2d

i mean… most of the time it’s adult men who are getting teenage girls pregnant. but that’s not the responsibility of OTHER teenagers to deal with that

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Anonymous #4 2d

Thankfully, it wasn’t a grown man. The father was a guy in our grade as well. Most of the friend group didn’t really like him because he’s was a huge asshole and got her into drugs. They both dropped out and ran from home together. I will say they did get clean for the kids tho

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Anonymous #5 2d

The last I seen or heard from him was when he tagged her posting about her cheating on him. It only got engagement from their siblings so I think he lost whatever friends he had (probably when they got clean)

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okay? 😭

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Anonymous #1 2d

It’s my post. I’m gonna respond to whoever the fuck I want to.

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