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Chat I’m 20 years old…why am I seeing people I graduated with who are younger than me getting married? Like I simply do not understand that, it seems so rushed 😭 I don’t wanna get married til at least 25 I wanna live a little and get my life together 1st
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Anonymous 4d

Don’t worry, they will regret it.. when you are that young you never learned how to have an actual healthy adult relationship

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Anonymous 4d

they're just representing for the future divorce rates

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Anonymous 4d

It’s fine to wait until you’re 25 and go get you’re life together. Everyone has their own timing

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Anonymous 4d

I’m 25 and I can’t imagine getting married now. I feel too young to be someone’s husband lmao

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Anonymous 4d

getting married and starting a family young is the best thing you can do! assuming you’ve found the right person, of course; someone you love and trust and are 100% loyal to, and someone who reciprocates those as well. tbh as early as 19 or 20 is probably too early for 90% of people, but i’d say around 22 or 23 is the perfect time!

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Anonymous 4d

It’s funny cuz it’s usually ppl who save themselves till marriage

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Anonymous 4d

Yeah legit. I’m 22 and my friend who’s 19 got married

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Yes they will regret it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Idk if that’s fair to say they’ll regret it. Like, they might, marriage is the biggest 50/50 you’ll find outside of a casino, but honestly it doesn’t matter. They might be really happy, they might not. Saying they won’t be is putting too much focus on them. Focus on what makes YOU happy; and take your time! You have the rest of your life to figure it out and enjoy it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

yes but they get married early because they probably want to live a traditional lifestyle where they create a family early and settle down together to raise their children, not because they can’t wait to lose their virginity

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

Yeah I feel cooked

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

You had me in the first half I’m like no tf it’s not 😭 but then you gave an age range and yea that age range does make sense, but 18-20 like what I’m seeing is absolutely just not smart 💀 especially cuz one girl I know is having a child with a dude who looks like he’s in his 30’s and she JUST turned 19 so I’m very fucking concerned for her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

no yeah that’s overboard if u ask me. tbh i have relatives who have gotten married and had their children at the ages of 17-19 (not in the us) and have lived incredibly blessed lives, but that early wouldn’t be for even me. personally i will finish my college education and hope to have a long-term relationship securely established by then with a woman who i will intend to soon marry. to each their own, but i personally believe the ideal is around 22-24

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

i think we're getting to a time where ideal is more around 28-32

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

That’s what my ideal marriage situation would be tbh lol hell I’m single asf rn and don’t see myself getting into a relationship any time soon so that sounds pretty on par

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