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Found out my dad has cancer and it’s been hard on me and my family. My best friend has called me sobbing everyday about being left on delivered by a boy. I wanna be there for her, but at the same time I’m annoyed. Like have some perspective..? Idk
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Anonymous 4w

Tell her to STFU and you have worse issues

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Anonymous 4w

Hey, just be honest and open, if you’ve had a friendship that long and she can’t take the hint it’s okay to be a little blunt about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> k9999 4w

I set a clear boundary and told her I didn’t have the energy to take on her problems rn. I feel bad but I just cannot deal and she’s been sobbing all day about a damn boy. Like I love her but she’s driving me crazy. and I’ve told her all this 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Maybe cut her off for a bit sounds like you have stuff that takes precedence and if she’s still doing it after you told her just goes to show you how selfish she is

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Anonymous replying to -> k9999 4w

We’ve been best friends since kindergarten, but I do think I need to take some space. Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Thank you! I’ve been blunt numerous times. I really don’t think she’s in the mental state to grasp where I’m coming from so for now, I’ll take a little space

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