
and he had been very respectful during the actual dance itself and the “after party” we went too (there was weed but no alcohol). while I was driving us home he decided to put his hand on my leg. That was fine, at that point I was hoping the night would end with my first kiss, as I had never really had any physical touch with a man before this. Where it all went wrong was when he decided to move his hand up to my vagina and started moving his fingers up and down to feel me through my leggings.
I don’t know if it’s considered sa because when I told him to stop he actually did, but the fact that he just went and touched me in a very inappropriate place without even asking me felt very violating and at the time I was very scared that things would progress and I couldn’t do anything to stop him. If you’ve read this far, let me know if what I experienced was actually assault or just me being uncomfortable with a guy
I was really shocked and scared. I had never even kissed a guy before and I was angry that he would touch me like that without asking and while I was driving. I was terrified because I knew I couldn’t take my hands off the wheel without endangering myself and him (I was a very new driver) and eventually worked up the courage to tell him to stop. He listened but things were very awkward after that. I drove us home and his mom picked him up and we didn’t talk after
SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!! Consent can be hot too you dumbass. If you want your sexual partner to ask permission because that’s what makes you feel most comfortable, set those boundaries!!! Not everyone is just ok with letting other people go at them spontaneously. Also, this is a very gray area on whether or not it is SA. If you felt in danger, then there’s a chance. But if you know that you guys have had a flirty relationship and he just went too far this one time, then most likely no.