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I think I was sexually assaulted when I was sixteen. I was driving me and my formal date home from a friend’s house that we had been hanging out with. My formal date was a guy I had been friends with for over a year (continued in replies)
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Anonymous 3w

and he had been very respectful during the actual dance itself and the “after party” we went too (there was weed but no alcohol). while I was driving us home he decided to put his hand on my leg. That was fine, at that point I was hoping the night would end with my first kiss, as I had never really had any physical touch with a man before this. Where it all went wrong was when he decided to move his hand up to my vagina and started moving his fingers up and down to feel me through my leggings.

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Anonymous 3w

It may be an unwanted touch but keep in mind, the art of seduction is all about making sexual moves, not about asking for permission. Since he stopped when asked I’d say no it’s not sa

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Anonymous 3w

I don’t know if it’s considered sa because when I told him to stop he actually did, but the fact that he just went and touched me in a very inappropriate place without even asking me felt very violating and at the time I was very scared that things would progress and I couldn’t do anything to stop him. If you’ve read this far, let me know if what I experienced was actually assault or just me being uncomfortable with a guy

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Anonymous 3w

I was really shocked and scared. I had never even kissed a guy before and I was angry that he would touch me like that without asking and while I was driving. I was terrified because I knew I couldn’t take my hands off the wheel without endangering myself and him (I was a very new driver) and eventually worked up the courage to tell him to stop. He listened but things were very awkward after that. I drove us home and his mom picked him up and we didn’t talk after

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!! Consent can be hot too you dumbass. If you want your sexual partner to ask permission because that’s what makes you feel most comfortable, set those boundaries!!! Not everyone is just ok with letting other people go at them spontaneously. Also, this is a very gray area on whether or not it is SA. If you felt in danger, then there’s a chance. But if you know that you guys have had a flirty relationship and he just went too far this one time, then most likely no.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

see but he wasn’t my sexual partner and I didn’t want to be seduced. I was 16 and just wanted to have my first kiss- I didn’t even touch myself down there let alone want a guy who had never made a move on before do it

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