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I love my boyfriend but why was today, the one day I was going to be taking a day 100% to myself for my mental health, the one day he complains about being lonely. He said I can still do it, but now I’m feeling guilty for doing it.
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Anonymous 3w

Babe that is so toxic

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Anonymous 3w

honestly i don't see the problem, he might just be communicating how he's actually feeling which is what women usually ask for, so just take your day since he said that was ok and be with him tomorrow he's allowed to feel lonely and deal with it if yall agreed to you having a day. if you've asked him to communicate his feelings before don't punish him for just doing what you asked.

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Anonymous 3w

I agree with #1. Him guilting you for needing time to your self is a RED FLAG 🚩.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

What is (I’m sorry, my brain is in a fog today and I’m not fully understanding what you’re saying)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Your bf! I would not be cool with that

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