actively ignoring everyone’s advice to leave my bf because i simply do not want to and would rather be with a cheater then be on my own and ik thats very unhealthy but at least im self aware
I hope whatever you’re going through you find peace ❤️
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Anonymous1d
Being self-aware of a poor decision doesn't make it a better decision. Knowing you are devaluing yourself doesn't change the fact that you are still doing it. Choosing to stay with someone who betrayed you just to avoid being alone shows a massive lack of self-respect.
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Anonymous#21d
As for the cheater, you are showing them that their behavior has zero consequences. You are showing them exactly how much disrespect you will tolerate, which ensures they will do it again. You aren't "choosing love", you are choosing comfort over your own dignity.