Anonymous #1 1w

not all women expect this tho. and like idk. I was probably at my worst during my hoe phase, it was pretty bad, but a lot of things were screwing up my brain. that doesn’t mean every woman who wants to hoe around a little isn’t valuing themselves, I just know I wasn’t. now with my man, I do take on a more traditionally feminine role in our relationship. but the only reason I do it is because he appreciates it immensely. if he didn’t I wouldn’t do that. there’s a lot more nuance than calling

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Anonymous #3 1w

women hoes and men lonely creeps.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Right I forgot to put not all women so I don’t get downvoted into oblivion haha

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Anonymous #1 1w

why did I get downvoted wtf💀I thought we were feminists ladies?? why can’t I, as a feminist, choose to do this for myself hmmm???

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Anonymous #3 1w

I didn’t downvote you haha your response was actually pleasantly respectful

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Anonymous #3 1w

The internet generally hates nuanced takes and having an actual conversation. A lot of people sadly want to stay divided and will do whatever they can to silence or ignore actual thoughtful growth and conversations geared towards bettering the world (in this case the dating pool) for everyone

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Anonymous #5 1w

oh wow ur so right

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Anonymous #3 1w

Don’t lose your nuance though! It’s thoughtful responses like yours that give me hope we can end the “I hate you, ok then I hate you, well then I hate you, oh ok I hate you” cycle :)

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Anonymous #5 1w

I really hope so!! :))

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Anonymous #3 1w

Literally! Like people are so hateful online with no compromise just because there is no repercussions

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Anonymous #2 1w

and who are the woman getting with??

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Anonymous #6 1w

The same 20% of dudes girls deemed attractive. Unless they settle for someone in which case, women ages 18-30 are more likely to cheat than men are. Men aren’t free from blame either. Many of them are untrained losers who have never talked to a girl in real life and blame women for their own incompetence. The only real winners in this shit show called modern dating are the 20% of men being passed around like the little bops they are. This is coming from someone who was once in that %20 of men🥀

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Anonymous #3 1w

I like how even when you speak truth people still downvote you even though they know you are right haha

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Anonymous #4 1w

Og post “Too ugly for hot bitches Too big a ego for ugly bitches” More than 1 problem with men who think this lol

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Anonymous OP 1w

Don’t get me wrong og post is a dumbass take but at face value it’s acknowledging his own ego is something holding him back. That’s all to say, yes it’s a dumb take but not necessarily related to the “male loneliness epidemic”… if that’s all that was said, it wasn’t a direct attack on anyone. Again it’s a dumb take but putting it on blast is weird imo

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Anonymous #5 1w

Sure cuz referring to women as bitches doesn’t at all signal a bigger problem than his ego holding him back lol

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Anonymous OP 1w

I didn’t say his ego was the only thing. It was one of many hence something. I’m just that saying while the use of that word is something valid, I also think regardless of not liking the use in the first place that there are contexts where the intent is different or can’t be the only signal of something to not be reading into it by immediately assuming a hateful usage

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