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My date abandoned me leaving me to pay for our meal. I could not afford to pay. So I got arrested.
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Anonymous 4w

Did you say you’ll pay in text? Because each person is responsible of their meal unless they have it in writing. This person can’t keep doing that or they’ll get arrested. This is why this stuff doesn’t happen often.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

He said he will pay. But only verbally. The restaurant didn’t care and still had me arrested.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

There is a way to catch the restaurant. A big enough group can have people move around and some restaurants say they need to stay in the same chair. If there was food sharing where it was one meal split among you, they can get you. But it’s separate meals, dine and dash doesn’t fall on you because you paid for your meal.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So this date might of intentionally shared a meal knowing he can leave because of it. That is why dine and dash has lines they can’t cross to get you to pay. This is why when keeping the meals separate and distinct will isolate such people and you can sniff them out they’ll do it ahead of time.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If he never shared in text he will pay and just says it verbally, do not share one meal. Any meal shared assume you’ll need to pay. If he has a meal and he didn’t pay, leaving makes him dine and dash. So the restaurant will have the bill and you’ll claim what’s yours and they can’t get you on the other stuff.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I mean logically dating today has gotten so toxic and basically people have to watch ahead of all kinds of bad people where one second is all nice and normal and the next second they just disappear.

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