
yupppp and then if their partners say “whoa, hey, this is not what I signed up for” they go on to convert the experience into fodder for their “that b*tch who betrayed me” tragic backstory I’m even willing to recognize that there are *some* people for whom that type of relationship structure can be a consensually-negotiated and mutually fulfilling thing, but this guy’s post absolutely reeks of gender essentialism & a sense of entitlement to being mommy’d