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If a guy chokes you in bed the first time you get physical… wyd?
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Anonymous 5w

you have to ask first

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Anonymous 5w

I mean this just happened to me but i liked it haha

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Anonymous 5w

that’s crazy

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Anonymous 5w

Without consent? Reporting him for assault

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m feeling conflicted af.. how hard did he do it for you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Not very hard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I mean I liked it but he’s a tall guy and I’m 90 pounds too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Just enough for my head to feel light. He also asked if i liked it while putting a very small amount of pressure before doing more. If you didnt consent i think thats weird af

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Oh… My voice got all scratchy after a few hours

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Idc if it upsets anyone either, you shouldn’t be doing things that could kill someone like they’re a normal part of sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yeah he didn’t ask😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Was he pressing down on your throat or squeezing? Pressing down is not proper and it can cause sore throats. Its not as much choking and more blocking blood flow to the brain

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Uhh. I’m not sure tbh I think squeezing but he just did it so hard the second time I actually couldn’t breath for a little and I was like woah

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Thats when I was like idk how I should feel about this…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah actually that seems insane to do on the first time. I could still breathe but it was just like gasping breaths. Def talk to him about it or just block tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yeah this was too long for my post but thing is, it wasnt even during sex. We were just lying in bed in the morning and things got a little touchy and he randomly did it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I probably should’ve confronted him then but I was a lil stunned and unsure but now my throat hurts to swallow fr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah wait thats even worse. He sounds like the type of person to enjoy hurting women. Please please please stay clear of him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Ok thank you girlie he was into dom sub stuff too so I kinda thought maybe this is part of that but yeah it just has me thinking its a lil concerning he’s treating a girl so small this way… he said he liked how fragile I was too so I guess maybe it isnt just play for him??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah i think he might be taking fantasies and trying to bring them to life without any research or concern for your safety. Never get with a man who obsesses about your size either. They're getting off to the power they hold over you and someone uneducated like that could legit kill you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yeah. He is definitely very experienced so I get the vibe he just wants someone who can accept this kind of thing. I’m quite shy so I did in the moment but definitely has me rethinking a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It will be ok I promise!! Move on as best you can because you deserve a partner that actually listens and cares about how you feel

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