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I can’t believe I have a 4 month old wtf
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Anonymous 21h

You’re the goat OP and your probably doing a great job raising your kid. Best wishes to you two. Don’t listen to the haters keep winning. You got this :)

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Anonymous 1d

How old are you?

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Anonymous 1d

ppl saying ur life is over at 21 is crazy 😭 ppl have been having kids in their early 20s for centuries even younger, you’ll be fine it’s not like ur 16

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

21, why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

L

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

The only L is you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Thank you! I know I’ll be alright, I have a great support system and the father is very much present. We’re engaged and have already been together for 6 years, im not worried about what anyone says

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

how are you doing?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

yeah ok bro enjoy raising a fuckin child at the age of 21 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I will. And I’ll enjoy doing everything else I did before I had her like I’ve been doing for the past 4 months because im not going to let a baby stop me from doing anything. Plenty of women in my family had babies in their early 20s or YOUNGER and are doing amazing. I’ll be fine. Just because you’d struggle in my situation doesn’t mean I’m struggling. Have a nice day!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Im doing good! The baby’s finally sleeping all through the night so im catching up on a lott of missed sleep finally. I really love seeing her grow. It was definitely unexpected (told by doctors I was infertile and ended up having a cryptic pregnancy, showed no symptoms of pregnancy until it was wayy too late) but im happy she’s here, and im finishing college regardless so

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

it’s rlly not that crazy, it’s just recently ppl act like 20 year olds are babies for some reason?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

yeah like I said, L.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

And like I said, the only L is you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Ppl acting like I popped out a baby as a 16 yr old. I make good money, I have an apt, my partner makes good money, and I have my family for extra help if i ever need it. Im just fine.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

was it hard being pregnant in college or was it the same as if you weren’t pregnant?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Honestly no, since I didnt have symptoms or even have a bump until I was around 8 months in. Once I got closer to 9 months then I had a bit more trouble though. Couldn’t walk up steps, had constant heartburn, couldnt keep food down and drinking like 1000x more water. All of that went away not too long after I gave birth though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

aww would you have another one?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

You’re 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Nah definitely not lol, I love being a mom dont get me wrong but I think im one and done. She has multiple cousins close in age so I’ll make sure she gets regular playdates and won’t be lonely once they’re all big enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

Thank you! 💜💜

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