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Confessions 4w
I’m craving a relationship and it sucks because that means I’ll have to approach men 😫 (why can’t they just approach me 😩)
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Anonymous 4w

Because we want to be polite and respectful and avoid potentially making you uncomfortable or coming off creepy. It’s just not worth it anymore for most of us. My gf and ex both approached me and made the first move, and from there I knew it was safe and okay to go from there. I get it sucks to have to make the first move, but after that point, you should be fine. Besides, gender roles are so outdated

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Anonymous 4w

Because were scared of y’all

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Anonymous 4w

FRRRR also being gay is hard to find a cute guy to even talk to

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Anonymous 4w

Other women ruined men approaching women because they made videos yelling about how they can’t just exist in peace without men approaching them so now men do not want to risk it

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Anonymous 4w

I’m here

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Anonymous 4w

your dms being off doesnt help

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Anonymous 4w

Prob cause u chopped

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

this right here. she’s gotta make it explicitly known she’s interested otherwise if we’re not attractive to those we find attractive and WE make the first move then we’re creeps. it’s Russian roulette even if you’re an objectively conventionally attractive man approaching a conventionally attractive woman.

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