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Normalize not enabling people who get worked up over everything
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Anonymous 5w

Most people don’t get worked up over everything! Often people who manipulate like to make victims feel like they’re “being dramatic”. You can’t enable people getting worked up over everything unless you are their parent. A reason historical abuse is able to happen in relationships is this dynamic. Hope this helps

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

If you don’t like them cut them off simple. They can live without you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

It feels like you’ve taken my blanket statement and carved out an incredibly specific situation based on your own bias

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah it what other way would someone get worked up over everything? Usually it’s people that trigger them. Normalizing not enabling is acting as if you’re a parent to a peer, you’re not. You could say I don’t like ppl that get worked up of stuff. Enabling is not something you have the power to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I mean on the internet. Of course it’s something you have the power to do WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

No you don’t have the power to enable someone getting worked up. You could be the cause tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Do you mean people should stop ragebaiting?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

You definitely have the power to enable ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Look up the definition of enable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I know what enable means

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Well apply it here then. You cannot enable someone to get worked up over everything. You will never have that power

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yes you can

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Nope. Good try 🤓

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yes you can

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’m done here

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank god

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