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Best advice for approaching a girl in public?
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Anonymous 3w

Don’t.

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Anonymous 3w

Seeing a looooot of comments all saying the same thing so I, as a woman, will give Some advice. For a lot of us the responding badly to being approached is because of bad experience with men mostly being creepy or misleading. Just approach in her line of sight, be polite, be normal. That’s it. That’s all that a lot of women are looking for. If she turns you down accept it, if not then hell yeah

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Anonymous 3w

Just don’t do it, they hate you no matter how you approach them.

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Anonymous 3w

Don’t

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Anonymous 3w

Damn this post didn’t work lol

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Anonymous 3w

The comments section is depressing. It’s not that bleak. Make eye contact and have some something good to say or ask. If you’re gonna be a creep then just don’t

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Anonymous 3w

Compliments are a great start as long as they aren’t creepy. Say something simple like I couldn’t help but notice how beautiful you are. And then comment on her boobs. Works every time.

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Anonymous 3w

no one’s giving you genuine advice so i will, try to approach her from an angle where she can see you coming so you don’t scare the shit out of her, say something along the lines of “i don’t mean to bother you, but i love your vibe/think you’re beautiful/etc, would i be able to get your number and we could talk sometime?”if she says no then that’s that, but if she says yes then thank her and return to whatever you were doing! tbh men approaching women these days gets such a bad rap bc so many —

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah unfortunately don’t unless you are attractive and even then it’s low chances. It’s pretty much a lose-lose for us. If we approach then women complain we aren’t approaching. We stop approaching they complain

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Ahhh ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I figured

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Such an odd cycle they want attention but only from people

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Honestly was what I was expecting

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Yeah it is that bleak haha you can do the same thing as an attractive guy but if you aren’t you are considered a creep. It’s a roll of dice

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

They want specific people’s attention

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Solid 8 so I don’t get immediately rejected at least

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

men make the interaction creepy/uncomfortable or won’t take no for an answer. there’s a reason fake number hotlines exist, bc often women are pressured into giving up a number. just be polite, try not to make it seem like you’re sexualizing her, and be graceful in the face of rejection. some women are going to reject you no matter what, but one woman out there is going to be very grateful you asked her. good luck !

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