Anonymous #1 14h

Us being married helps our careers and ambitions. Staying sexually satisfied isn’t a struggle bc I just don’t have a very high sex drive or care about sex that much

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Anonymous OP 14h

Have you ever been tempted to cheat because of all that?

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Anonymous #1 14h

I kinda have before when we were engaged, but my husband knew about it and he didn’t consider it cheating bc of our arrangement

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Anonymous OP 14h

What happens when your marriage doesn’t benefit your career and ambitions anymore? Or is that not really possible

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Anonymous #1 14h

That’s just not really possible

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Anonymous OP 10h

“Didn’t consider it cheating” holy doormat husband

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Anonymous #3 10h

And you’re wild for even agreeing with him

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Anonymous #3 10h

Well we’re only married on paper. It’s not a real marriage.

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Anonymous OP 10h

If it’s on paper it’s real. Cheating is cheating

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Anonymous #3 10h

You’re clearly confused and don’t understand the situation

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Anonymous OP 10h

If you are legally married on paper, being with another person IS legally cheating. Not sure what you don’t understand

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Anonymous #3 9h

Hi, so I’m a third year law student soon to be lawyer. There’s no such thing as “legally cheating” because cheating isn’t a crime. While it can be used as grounds for fault-based divorce, it is not illegal. Further more because situations like separation, open relationships, “hall passes,” and threesomes/group sex exist, in situations like ours if he tried to file for fault-based divorce I could use evidence to argue it is not cheating and there are no grounds for fault-based divorce

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Anonymous OP 8h

It’s cheating so stop pretending it’s not

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Anonymous #3 8h

Stop pretending you know what you’re talking about

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Anonymous OP 8h

Youre justifying a moral wrong

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Anonymous #3 8h

There’s nothing morally wrong with it

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