lightbluehater on Sidechat | Misandry kind of just motivated me to be a better man tbh, to be more respectful and courteous towards women. Maybe you’re just too insecure to self reflect and grow?

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Confessions 3w

lightbluehater

Misandry kind of just motivated me to be a better man tbh, to be more respectful and courteous towards women. Maybe you’re just too insecure to self reflect and grow?

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Anonymous 3w

Shame has never made anyone perform better , but me being chivalrous or kind is an internal me thing. That’s who I am. What other people are should not affect what my standard for myself is in relationship to how I treat my fellow human.

Anonymous 3w

I’m not saying op is right but I don’t need to be told I’m a bad person to be a good person

Anonymous 3w

This whole thread is people talking past each other. #1 is saying decency shouldn’t need shame, while lightblue is saying some men hear women’s anger as context and reflect from it. Saying ‘it’s not about you, it’s about men’ doesn’t actually resolve anything, because group criticism still hits individuals. The real argument is whether that kind of rhetoric leads to growth or just resentment

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Anonymous

#1 3w

They’re not talking about you specifically they’re talking about men

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lightbluehater 3w

Even in a general sense, beating someone down won’t encourage them to get better

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Anonymous

#1 3w

Well for me like it puts into perspective how many awful experiences women have had with men, and I want to be better for that reason, idk if that makes sense

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beestboy 3w

Yeah I never saw Misandry as shame, my understanding was feminism was “equal rights” and Misandry was “down with the patriarchy and everything it stands for”

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Anonymous

beestboy 3w

Yea these dudes just hate women and are looking for any excuse to reinforce their beliefs.

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Anonymous

beestboy 3w

Yeah, misogyny is hating every woman but Misandry is hating Men™️

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lightbluehater 3w

I fw that

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lightbluehater 3w

Well that’s probably because you’re a fucking simp lol

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Anonymous

#1 3w

This is all the post was sayin, people aren’t necessarily skilled with comprehension ngl.

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Anonymous

#3 3w

You using “simp” as an insult isn’t helping chivalry stay alive btw

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beestboy 3w

It was a woman who posted that btw simp, go look at the comments

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lightbluehater 3w

Didn’t u just say it’s an internal thing ?

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Anonymous

#3 3w

What is “it” in your sentence

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lightbluehater 3w

I can recognize the many terrible experiences women have with men, but I find that me being chivalrous and good guy is just something I want to do regardless If someone is trying to give me flack over something I haven’t done it just irks me

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Anonymous

#1 3w

I’ve never experienced what you’re talking about in that last sentence there tbh

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lightbluehater 3w

Being chivalrous is internal.

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lightbluehater 3w

That’s good to hear, I just find it all counterintuitive

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Anonymous

#3 3w

Like what do u mean by that? It’s internally motivated?

Anonymous

#1 3w

HELLO. This is what I’m saying, but you have these fucking simp ass dudes that enable that dumb behavior. “Let me prove to somebody I’ve never done anything to I’m not like the shitty men she chose” man STFU 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous

#3 3w

You know misogyny can be internalized right champ? Don’t tell me you only respect woman’s opinions when they agree with u

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#3 3w

That’s not really what I’m saying, if a woman says something like “I hate men” I’m not offended because I know I’m not a part of, or the cause of her anger. And there is a difference between this and a man saying “I hate women”, aside from any cultural rhetoric, in that men are the oppressors and women are the oppressed.

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beestboy 3w

I don’t agree with misogyny though I’m just not going out of my way to prove something to somebody I never did anything to. Basic courtesy/respect is one thing but if a woman has an “I hate all men” attitude I’ll still be respectful but I’m not going out of my way to prove shit to her past that.

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beestboy 3w

you agreeing with women you don’t know giving u hatred just because you’re a man is weirdo simp shit. Especially when you yourself have done nothing to them, grow some fucking nuts bro.

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Anonymous

#3 3w

I never said I was going out of my way to prove something to someone, I meant more like passive changes in attitude or language, I’m not like “gosh periods are so awful omg” but if a woman tells me she’s on hers then I’ll just be more relaxed and easygoing with them and not fuck with them as much as usual

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Anonymous

#3 3w

And they’re not giving any one of us hatred, it’s hatred towards the concept of men in the way society has created them to be.

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lightbluehater 3w

So basic human respect bro. What decent human being would treat a woman a type of way because of the example u gave. Quit with the pandering shit, this is things all decent men already know. It isn’t a fucking “passive change”

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Anonymous

#3 3w

Yeah man idk what to tell you like it’s bare minimum yeah but a lot of guys are not doing this

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Anonymous

#3 3w

And this is just stuff I do for friends like it’s obv different for if I was in a relationship but I’m not so I can’t speak on thay