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I have a hard time not being a bitch when a man is complaining about something that he could easily resolve but just won’t because he doesn’t want to? Okay stfu and stop complaining.
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Anonymous 1d

Is this similar to the posts about when a guy offers logical solutions instead of just listening or is this different?

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Anonymous 21h

this guy i was talking to bragged about his job being great for months. he recently had to put gas on after pay 💀 i told him to get a new job then and he said if things don’t get better he will. he has no plans to make things better, offered me gas money and never followed through, and is complaining about christmas coming up. it’s so pathetic and such an ick

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Anonymous 1d

I just want to go the gym but UGH I want to stay on the couch and vape. UGH 😩

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It sounds like the guy is bitching about things that could be easily resolved on his end. This isn’t about a girl venting

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

For example, a man who works outside is cold. I tell him day before, dress warmly. He wears a sweatshirt and complains. I say, why not dress warmer? He complains he doesn’t have a jacket. Okay I send him a link to a fire resistant jacket since it has to be for his work. He complains he will not be purchasing it. Okay, so ask someone at work how you can get a company one. No, it’s too hard. OKAY SHUT UP AND BE FUCKING COLD THEN.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

It’s so off putting when a man can’t discipline themselves and fails to follow through on any of his words.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I’d just say that I’ve seen conversations where a girl might have a similar response and expect the guy to pick up the hint that she wants him to buy her the jacket as a gift or something similar. This may not be as polarizing or gendered as your post is making it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3h

The jacket is not for me, the jacket is for him and his warmth since he works outdoors.

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