
You get it 😭 I feel a 'LET ME LOVE YOU' sentiment towards men bc it feels like they purposefully try to come off as horrible as possible to anyone attracted to them atp Like 'Oooo I'm talking to this person I really like. Let's make them as uncomfortable as humanely possible! Maybe some casual stalking too 😍'
As a bi woman, same. I think they find it ‘hot’ in some type of way for whatever reason. I’m like you, OP, in the sense that i want to find a genuine connection with someone and not just a random hook up that the average person in today’s society has. (i have found it already! I have a lovely fiancé who is the most supportive and loving man i have ever met!)
Exactly dude. Like.. I don’t want sexual things with strangers. I want to know people and care about them. It feels weird and gross. Just like somebody I don’t know at all being like “I love your stubble and I want to *graphic descriptions of things and request for pics*” Like no dude. Thats not gonna work for you ever getting a date or affection. I imagine for women it’s significantly worse cause most men are attracted to you folks. I mostly only deal with it in online queer spaces luckily.