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Is it bad to have backups when you are in a relationship? - not actively pursuing the back up vice versa - the back ups don’t even know they are back ups
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Anonymous 4d

Yes 🤨 although I can’t quite put my finger on why

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Anonymous 4d

No. But the moment you tell someone this then yes very fucking bad. This is a tricky one for sure

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Anonymous 4d

yes it is bad it puts you in a place of temptation in terms of cheating i used to have a bunch of back ups with my ex and i ended up breaking up with him cuz i lost all feelings for him(i found a bunch of what he didn’t have in others) and in my current i had to actively get rid of all people who i previously talked to and who i think is attractive because i want my current relationship to be all about him

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