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Confessions 16h
i don’t think if you apologize for doing insanely fucked up shit to somebody, and they don’t forgive you, then the weight is now on them. at some point you have to admit to yourself that you took shit too far and you messed things up. that’s still on you
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Anonymous 16h

Not really, if you do an official apology and they don’t choose to forgive u that has nothing to do with you. I can’t keep harping on them not forgiving me or acting like I have to beat myself up or continue to suffer just cuz they don’t feel obligated to forgive.

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Anonymous 16h

100% yes, bandaids don’t fix bullet holes.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 13h

ngl...that right there lets me know that the apology wasn’t genuine or there isn’t a true understanding of the impact you leave on someone else because the fact that you started talking about your own suffering etc as if you're the victim the moment they don't forgive you is what i'm talking about. nobody is asking you to suffer, they just don't forgive you because you just went too far. to me, truly mature people understand and don’t just assume “i’m sorry” fixes everything. we’re not 5

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Anonymous replying to -> peregrinefalcon 13h

precisely my point

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Yea I just disagree with what you’re saying generally but I feel you

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