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We live in a time now before I date you I need to know who you voted for
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Anonymous 1w

Weird behavior

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Anonymous 1w

It makes sense cause it’s apart of you and you might not align on a lot of things especially when it’s sensitive topics like abortion

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Anonymous 1w

That’s why hinge has a prompt for that. Conservative women need not apply

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Anonymous 1w

Honestly, op is right. Yes, I will be less interested in you if you voted for the man who sexualizes his own daughter. It’s not even just politics at this point just basic human decency.

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Anonymous 1w

The Rock

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Anonymous 1w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Reasonable not wanting to date someone who wants to take away your right to decide over your own body

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Anonymous 1w

You’re assuming all of their opinions on one answer

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Anonymous 1w

I’d say less than you think if you aren’t assuming and talk to them. You’d be surprised if you talked to people about their opinions before asking who they voted for. Just my experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Do they like/tolerate nazis? Then that’s all the one decision I need

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Well if you’re extreme one way or another I guess. You’ll find more people are in the middle.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yeah I don’t wanna be with anybody who is in the middle about nazis. You’re being very “I’m not choosing a side” about this which says 10x more than you think.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I’d certainly be more left than right. I just don’t believe the nazi comparison. I just think you’ll get to a point well before dating on what you think of them and their views. I guess if you’re only doing online then sure but try to talk to someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I really do get there are bad people but I hate when all conservatives are grouped with extremists. No I don’t think nazis are good no I don’t hate women. Like I can’t even have a conversation with a liberal person without being called every name in the book

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

It’s the company you keep. Society works by being guilty by association. And if you REALLY weren’t like those extremist you’d walk away the second you see nazi/racist/incel behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I think you can also argue there are very bad people on the other side. I’ve been treated so poorly by people on the left but I also recognize there are some very decent people as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I’d love to discuss more one on one to better understand how I can make others not hate me based on some of my beliefs

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Maybe you should self evaluate why your beliefs do that to people. Don’t become one of those “how dare people don’t like me for my actions” type of person

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I don’t feel I have outrageous beliefs though. People just make assumptions that are wrong but don’t care to listen to an explanation. I get why people would hate why certain people believe things. Not ignorant just wanting to learn

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Yeah seems like a lot more “I know what you mean” instead of listening to a point of view. I think there are different reasonings for opinions than lumping them all into one

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

For sure I genuinely just want to have an open and honest conversation and haven’t been able to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

There are definitely differing views on many topics that both have benign reasoning. Just different life experiences and perspectives.

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