In an odd way this kind of makes me feel a bit better about it and less mean or evil for it
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AnonymousOP1d
I felt bad but also knew I needed to do it and should have done it long ago
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Anonymous#11d
That’s the predicament I’m in because I feel bad for it but at the same time I have good reason to do so and it should’ve been done awhile ago
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AnonymousOP1d
What is your reason?
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Anonymous#11d
Almost 10 years worth of disrespect but what really did it for me was her making a comment towards me about a close friend of mine that she has never met
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AnonymousOP1d
10 years is a very long time of disrespect
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Anonymous#11d
I agree but within those 10 years in those earlier years I didn’t necessarily view it or know certain things were “disrespectful” because I was a bit younger and it took me some reflection, experience, and understanding to know that it was
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AnonymousOP1d
And I know too that I have done or said things that were also disrespectful as well which I take full accountability for but there was definitely a difference in disrespect between her and I
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AnonymousOP1d
Same with me but in two years
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Anonymous#11d
Then if you don’t mind me asking how exactly did you go about things after the fact? Because I know most would try to salvage the friendship by having a discussion about it but I’ve tried that and to no avail so this is my last resort but I feel awful for doing so
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AnonymousOP21h
I only knew her for two years so it wasn’t as difficult but I slowly stopped talking to her, said I was busy and couldn’t hangout, and they never really tried much to keep in touch. Eventually they removed me from all socials and we don’t talk at all now
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Anonymous#119h
That’s about what I’ve been doing just slowly removing myself