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I’m in the process of slowly ghosting my best friend… (with reason obviously)
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Anonymous 1d

I did this a while ago

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Anonymous 1d

I get it, will not judge

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

In an odd way this kind of makes me feel a bit better about it and less mean or evil for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I felt bad but also knew I needed to do it and should have done it long ago

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

That’s the predicament I’m in because I feel bad for it but at the same time I have good reason to do so and it should’ve been done awhile ago

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

What is your reason?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Almost 10 years worth of disrespect but what really did it for me was her making a comment towards me about a close friend of mine that she has never met

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

10 years is a very long time of disrespect

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I agree but within those 10 years in those earlier years I didn’t necessarily view it or know certain things were “disrespectful” because I was a bit younger and it took me some reflection, experience, and understanding to know that it was

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

And I know too that I have done or said things that were also disrespectful as well which I take full accountability for but there was definitely a difference in disrespect between her and I

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Same with me but in two years

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Then if you don’t mind me asking how exactly did you go about things after the fact? Because I know most would try to salvage the friendship by having a discussion about it but I’ve tried that and to no avail so this is my last resort but I feel awful for doing so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

I only knew her for two years so it wasn’t as difficult but I slowly stopped talking to her, said I was busy and couldn’t hangout, and they never really tried much to keep in touch. Eventually they removed me from all socials and we don’t talk at all now

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

That’s about what I’ve been doing just slowly removing myself

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