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First heart break, at 21. I borderline want to have a hoe phase but also don’t want to be a hoe. Conflicting
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Anonymous 5w

Don’t go through the hoe phase bro. I did that and the end result is not good. BUT you should go out more, just don’t have sex with random mfs.

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Anonymous 5w

eh i’d say give yourself some time to feel even tho it sucks. sex aint gona make the hurt go away, gotta take the time to unpack it and then move forward 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous 5w

I’m so sorry. Lock in and focus on yourself. Someone decent will come around.

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Anonymous 5w

I read this wrong at first. Listen, it sucks. And it’s gonna hurt. But if you go down a hoe road or something that’s not gonna be beneficial to you, don’t do it. Don’t become the person the person that broke your heart says you are

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Anonymous 5w

Honestly go for it- safely!! I think it’s a healthy way to learn about yourself. But definitely protect yourself and set strong boundaries and if you have a trusted friend you can be FWB with but aren’t tryna catch feelings for, even better. Why not, while you’re young. The best way to get over someone 🤭

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Anonymous 5w

Have a lesbian phase ;3

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Anonymous 5w

Then you don't want to have a hoe phase lol the whole point is doing what you want and having fun but if you're gonna be weird and miserable about it then it's not what you want and not gonna be fun

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Anonymous 5w

Go have fun. See what’s out there, try new things! Don’t hold yourself back

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

What was ur end result?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Needed to hear this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Sometimes we all need a nudge :) i’m sorry your going thru this but just know that something better lies ahead for you and this pain is temporary

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

fr, too many people don’t disclose their sexual history and transit STDs so if you do sleep around, make sure you trust them and that you know their status

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