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I want to date but i’m scared of the vulnerability and commitment. I don’t want the thought of someone possibly cheating on me or not actually liking me in the back of my head. Or if they’re secretly a weirdo. I haven’t dated before either.
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Anonymous 2w

i've dated before but still feel this way

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Anonymous 2w

Therapy

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Anonymous 2w

Here is a secret. Everybody is secretly a weirdo

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Anonymous 2w

It can be really hard to trust people, if you want the commitment type of relationship you have to let it naturally find you rather than seeking it all the time! As long as you’re active socially it is bound to happen!

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Anonymous 2w

I would love someone, but it feels like no one wants me back :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

that’s the thing i don’t “seek” it out or whatever the hell people say.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Then you should be good!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Same 😭 I crave a relationship so bad until I'm actually fully in one. It then feels like there's always a cloud of doom and despair over my head. So I'm taking a LONG pause from dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

i’m talking creepy predator type weirdo not like eating pbj with pickles or randomly making animals noises or smth

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