Anonymous #2 12w

I literally will get drunk and want to be intimate with my bf even if he’s sober.

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Anonymous #2 12w

In the moment I might add

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Anonymous OP 12w

Cool, you’re still not without influence then and saying it’s fine *after* you’re already inebriated is not the same as planning consent beforehand.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Just because you want it doesn’t mean everybody else does, so 2 does make a point. But in the case described in the post op wasn’t trying to take advantage of the girl.

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Anonymous #1 12w

I didn’t say that it was everybody I said me personally and plus I’m just advocating for the scenario that we can’t just throw that word around when you’re with your partner Context matters✌🏻✌🏻

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Anonymous #2 12w

???? you’re wrong because I would be under the influence when I consented

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Anonymous OP 12w

It still happens with partners. It’s actually quite the issue with many. We already know your experience is not unique and many are the same— it doesn’t need to be shared.

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Anonymous OP 12w

True context does matter, and I think the initial post lacked context which was why people took it the wrong way. But after reading the comments 100% on op’s side.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Yes, you are wrong because you would be under the influence without having established anything prior.

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Anonymous #2 12w

People are literally calling OP a predator so I thought it should be said I don’t care if you don’t agree I want it to be known.

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